Right speech is a hard one. I had someone who, whenever I had a grievance, was the one I'd most want to call. And then it didn't feel good; I didn't like it when that person called me to complain, but I realized I was doing the same thing. I didn't want to participate anymore, so I fought the urge to call and vent. Then I realized our connection was mostly the airing of grievances.
Right speech is a hard one. I had someone who, whenever I had a grievance, was the one I'd most want to call. And then it didn't feel good; I didn't like it when that person called me to complain, but I realized I was doing the same thing. I didn't want to participate anymore, so I fought the urge to call and vent. Then I realized our connection was mostly the airing of grievances.
Thanks Doreen. I’ve been there many times. Long road ahead, but it’s good to be on it together. 😊
Yes it is!